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Nothing about you is too kinky, slutty, strange, unorthodox, or shameful! While working with me, you will be develop a deeper understanding of your relational and sexual needs and be encouraged to celebrate your "weirdness" in all areas of your life. Life is too short to live in a state of shame and guilt."             -Dr. Ashley
Dr. Ashley is the owner of Phoenix Ascending. She has more than 20 years experience improving relationships and sex lives.

Greetings!
Welcome to Phoenix Ascending: Relationship & Sexual Health Coaching

I specialize in creating a space for candid and open conversations about sex and relationships free of shame and discomfort. Effective "REAL TALK" is my mission when it comes to relationship and sex. I can assist you and/or your partner(s) in setting and reaching the goals that you wish to attain quickly by using my expertise but also assessments that are designed to do just that. The key to fulfilling relationships and joyful intimacy is learning to be comfortable with what we have be raised to believe is shameful and uncomfortable. Developmentally, all of us have been taught that sexual intimacy and our sexuality should be kept behind closed doors. I take an "open door approach" to addressing sexual issues in order to deconstruct unhealthy sexual and relationship-focused narratives so those I work with can enjoy sexual intimacy and experience more emotional rewards in the most important relationships in their lives. 

I am an expert in assisting at making taboo topics and challenges a part of everyday conversation.

If freedom, joy, and balance in your relationships, sexual intimacy, and with your sexual health is what you seek, you have come to the right place. Nothing is too kinky, slutty, strange, unorthodox, or shameful! While working with me, you will be develop a deeper understanding of your relational and sexual needs and be encouraged to celebrate your "weirdness" in all areas of your life. Life is too short to live in a state of shame and guilt. 

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Start your journey down a road that leads to more fulfilling relationships and a more joyful sex life. 

Whether you want to address the challenges your are facing individually or with a partner/set of partners, start with your 15-minute discovery call by clicking below. 

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