Phoenix Ascending: Relationship & Sexual Health Coaching
"Making The Unspeakable-Speakable"
More Joyful Sex, Less Shame, & Healthier Relationships
This is a judgment-free space for people who are done avoiding the hard conversations. I work with individuals and couples who feel disconnected, stuck in the same fight, or quietly unsatisfied—sexually or emotionally—even if everything looks “fine” from the outside. That includes clients navigating desire differences, sexual shame, erotic identity, communication struggles, and the unique challenges that can come with Lifestyle/ENM relationships (boundaries, agreements, jealousy, and emotional safety).
Here, we make the unspeakable speakable—without pressure, blame, or a one-size-fits-all agenda. You’ll gain insight into your attachment patterns, desire style, and personality dynamics, so you can stop guessing and start building a relationship and sex life that feels real, fulfilling, and respectful of your boundaries.
A Word From Dr. Ashley
PhD in Marriage & Family Therapy, Sexologist & Relationship Coach
Many people don’t seek support for their relationship or sex lives because they’re broken—they seek it because they’re exhausted. Exhausted from feeling disconnected, unsure how to talk about sex without it turning into defensiveness, and tired of pretending everything is fine when it isn’t.
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My mission is simple: Making the Unspeakable Speakable.
That means having honest, shame-free conversations about desire, boundaries, emotional intimacy, resentment, and the subtle patterns that erode connection over time—without blame.
What sets me apart is that my approach is rooted in real-life experience, not just theory. Having navigated relationship complexity myself, I understand how messy intimacy can get when real emotions and real histories are involved.
My style is warm, radically honest, and straightforward—with real tools and a practical plan tailored to your life.
If you’re ready to cultivate a connected, authentic, and sustainable relationship and sex life, I would be honored to support you.
“Dr. Ashley helped us protect our intimacy through pregnancy and postpartum—without pressure, guilt, or disconnect. We feel closer than ever.” -Leslie G.