As mentioned earlier, I prioritize transparency and openness as a Sexologist and Relationship & Sexual Health Coach. Everyone has their unique approach, and while many helpers focus solely on the positive, I believe in sharing both the highs and lows of my journey. Starting with the positive, I am confident Bisexual, Feminist Woman who is proud to be able to celebrate her own emotional and sexual self, openly and freely after much work and perseverance. I was born with 8 grandmas around me, an incredible circle of women, and I will probably always honor their memories and give credit to their profound impact on my life, particularly during the formative years. I am a proud mom of two AMAZING kiddos. In my free time I work out, crochet, hang out with my two, spunky cats, and most importantly, spend time with those who I keep close in my inner circle.

 

I expect you as my clients to be vulnerable and also believe solemnly in a talk the talk and walk the walk approach.Understanding ourselves and each other is crucial, and recognizing our resilience through struggles is incredibly beneficial. I advocate for a parallel model of healing, where my experiences can aid clients in their journeys. If you're seeking a neutral approach to change, I may not be the right fit for you. I tend get straight to the core issues quickly. I recognize that I may not be the ideal match for every potential client, and I encourage you to consider the same when selecting a professional to work with. I do what I can to be transparent about my own process and the various roles that I play in my life, along with the trials, tribulations, and victories I have faced. 

 

As a mother of two wonderful children who are close in age and a former step-parent to three adult stepchildren, I understand the complexities of parenting. My experiences have shaped my understanding of the joys and struggles that come with raising children. In terms of partnership, I find that dedicated work and prioritization can lead to deeply fulfilling relationships, platonic, monogamous, or otherwise. My experiences, including surviving narcissistic abuse and sexual assault trauma, have prompted me to continuously work on my own healing, which I believe is vital for helping others.

 

Family dynamics can be complicated, and as the eldest of three sisters, I navigate the emotional challenges come with it. My family's history of mental illness has taught me valuable lessons about the roles we play in our relationships, which informs my work with clients. Having faced mental illness and addiction, I've now found stability through medication and emotional work. These experiences have strengthened me, and I strive to help navigate their struggles, drawing on my journey to assist them realizing their potential. I began my work with sexual assault victims in 2003, shortly after experiencing my own trauma. This led me to focus on helping others while initially denying my own. My passion for addressing sexual intimacy stems from my healing journey, and I hope that by sharing my story, others can find strength in their own healing process. Thank you for taking the time to read my message. you feel we would be a good match to work together I would be honored to support  and connect with you during this season of your journey. Wishing you love and light in all you do!